2 Powerful Mindset Shifts That Squelch Overeating

pleasure imageI don’t know about you, but I dieted more years than I like to admit. Those of us who did now know that dieting backfired in many ways. The compulsion to overeat (especially “forbidden” sweet treats and comfort food) and the tendency to eat quickly are two of the lingering consequences.

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The good news is that we can undo this damage and regain our sanity, our peace and a comfortable weight. Let’s look at two powerful mindset shifts. People who never dieted know these things intuitively…

1. More food does not equal more pleasure.
Instead, more experience equals more pleasure.

Pleasure and overeating are not the same thing. This may seem like a no-duh to those who’ve never dieted but for those of us who have – we have to stop and chew on this a while…pardon the pun.

True eating-pleasure comes from slowing down and connecting with our eating experiences: eating food you enjoy, taking time to fully taste, smell, chew, and feel the deep satisfaction of being truly nourished.

One of the best ways to glean real pleasure from food is to wait to eat until you’re physically hungry.

2. Wait on physical hunger before you eat.
Food really hits the spot when you’re hungry, because there’s actually a spot to hit.

We can’t experience the good gift of pleasure if we’re eating on auto-pilot, gobbling our meal while driving to the next thing, taking big bites and swallowing after a few cursory chews. These mind-numbing habits set us up to eat right past “full”.

I know MINDFULNESS can seem like a wimpy little word – but it’s powerful indeed. As we begin to wait on true hunger before we eat and focus on getting full pleasure from our eating experiences, we naturally eat less. And of course that means we end up weighing less too.

3 Surprising Reasons You Need More Eating Pleasure

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Here’s a profound truth about eating that’s so simple we miss it all the time.

This truth will enhance your up-coming Thanksgiving feast and revolutionize your food-life in the new year ahead.

Are you ready for it?      …drum roll…

If you’re gonna eat it anyway, ENJOY IT!

If you choose it, own it.

3 reasons this practice is so important:

1. Pleasure is a critical part of healthy metabolism. If you don’t relax enough to experience pleasure when you eat, it adversely affects your metabolic health, and cuts digestion effectiveness by 40 to 60%. Stress elevates cortisol and insulin, which causes your body to hang onto extra weight.

2. Satisfaction is not a luxury, it’s an innate need. When your eating experience isn’t satisfying, your mind and body will keep looking for the pleasure they need by causing you to crave more food, even after your fuel needs are met. Food guilt, mindless eating, eating-on-the-run – all these common eating scenarios – leave us unsatisfied and set us up for unrelenting cravings.

3. Owning your own choices empowers you. Dieting has damaged our self-confidence and caused us to deeply question ourselves. Taking full responsibility for yourself again is healing. As you practice making thoughtful choices and stand by them, you resurrect your personal power and dignity.

So, if you decide to have a slice of Aunt Peggy’s Christmas pie this year – be all in! Sit down in your right mind, relax, thank God for it, and experience it fully for the holy day gift it is. Without judgment. Without guilt. Without reserve.

As you adopt this life-giving practice of pleasure you’ll find that you begin to choose more wisely, feel more peaceful and – your pants will begin to fit more loosely too.